What does self-confidence look like?

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1. Do not be confused by loneliness. You can go to a cafe or restaurant on your own without feeling any discomfort. No need for phone calls while walking. Confident is self-sufficient alone.

2. Does not bind the opposite sex. A confident person can communicate with the most effective colleague without inconvenience. Without fear of reaction and shyness. No heart palpitations, but normal. Professionally.

3. There is no fear of rejecting a friend. You can say no when you don't want to settle for something. A confident person will not be afraid that someone will dislike him because of an honest "no." You can do this politely and provide explanations if necessary. Nobody will consider him rude, and he knows it.

4. Comfort with vulnerability. You can easily talk about your fears, doubts, failures and worries. A confident person will not feel like a weakling at the same time. He allows others to feel comfortable around him - shows that he is the same person as everyone else - with his "bumps". This is a plus for him, not a minus.

5. Doesn't need stimulants. You can confess your feelings or express your worries about anything without alcohol. Confident acts "on the sober." Drinks with others for company, as a rest.

6. Don't be afraid to ask. Confident without remorse and ego can turn to others for help. It's okay to ask for a favor or a favor. If he is denied, he treats with understanding and does not harbor resentment. Accepts boundaries.

7. Apologizes. You can admit your mistake and repent to someone else. The confident knows that this is not weakness, but strength. Puts his ego in place when it comes to the good of others. Objective and fair.
 
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