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Salute, fans of fucking up someone else's account, here's an article for you to achieve your goals.
1. Write what you want to achieve the way it is written.
The main thing is to do it sincerely, and express all the words that come to your mind (heart, soul).
2. Take a short break, 10-15 minutes, during which you must be distracted, change the type of activity.
3. Reread what you've written down – are you sure you want to do this?
So much so that you are willing to work hard to achieve your desire?
How many percent out of 100 do you really want to realize your wish?
4. Now we go directly to the formulation of the goal of your future activity.
Express your desire in positive words (WITHOUT any other way of negation).
Live WITHOUT cheating, DO NOT change-erroneous wording,
Being true is one of the correct formulations.
5. Write it down in the present tense
I lead a healthy lifestyle.
I am successfully interviewing for the XXX position.
I'm on vacation in Altai.
I'm traveling in Sweden.
During each step of reformulating your desire into an achievable goal, check your feelings:
Do you still want your wish to come true?
Do you want to start implementing it?
6.Specify your goal.
Imagine how its implementation will look in detail, what events you want to see (what you want to participate in, what you want to feel and hear) in the process of achieving the goal.
I hear the sound of an alarm clock and wake up easily.
I turn off the alarm, stretch, and get up.
I go to the window, look out and enjoy the early morning, the space and the silence.
I say to myself, "If you get up early, God gives you good luck" and go to the shower...
... I arrive at work earlier than my employees.
I go into the office, take off my coat and put it away, sit down at my desk, and check the plan I've made since the evening before.
I take the most difficult task and focus on my work.
When my colleagues come, I am happy to switch to communication with them, rewarding myself for excellent work with a short break...
I'll repeat it again:
specifics, specifics, and more specifics.
Imagine what the space around you looks like, what it smells like, what sounds are heard, what you feel, and, perhaps, what the process of fulfilling your dreams tastes like.
It may very well be that at this stage you will come across the fact that you, of course, have a great idea.
I want to say-you said it sincerely, but how it looks and feels, is lived in reality, you have either vague impressions, or practically none, or learned from feature films, programs and books.
It's time to take a short break and explore the specific details of your desire, dream.
The simpler the goal, the less time and effort you will spend implementing it.
I don't want to wash the dishes, and I want them to be clean!!!! - sounding at the first step, by the sixth it has already transformed into-I buy and install a dishwasher...
And it led to questions: what size, brand, cost, where to put it, how to organize the connection, etc.
If you don't have enough complete information, you are less likely to make the best decision for you.
Of course, if you set yourself a serious life goal, which largely determines in which direction the years and years of your life will pass, then you will have to think and research the issue more seriously.
Surprisingly, many people are more responsible when choosing household appliances or a car than when choosing a job, housing, or life partner.
Their main argument sounds like- " you can't take everything into account!".
Right.
But why the most urgent conclusion is made from this observation: "then I will generally act thoughtlessly, stupidly, maybe I will be lucky" - a mystery of all times and peoples.
So, you specify your goal, present in detail the plot of its achievement and implementation. See, feel, hear, smell, and enjoy the taste...
If you realize that you don't have realistic ideas about what you wanted, or you don't have enough of them, you focus on finding and getting information, and clarifying the details of your goal.
7. Apply the rule " Anti-IT ITSELF!".
Your goal should be formulated as achievable, thanks to your actions, your efforts.
I'm asking her out
I pass the selection process and complete This Project
I do, act, negotiate with other people and get their help, participation in exchange for something interesting that they need.
Erroneous options:
8. Define the scope and boundaries of your goal.
Where, when, and with whom – you want to realize your goal.
Where, when, and with whom – you DON'T want to realize your goal.
I am buying a spacious bright two-bedroom apartment in the city center.
Error – if you don't specify the exact city. : )
9. What will you lose from what you have now when you reach your goal? Is your wish really worth it?
For example, the birth of even the most long-awaited and desired child will mean: significantly less free time for his mom and dad for many years, additional regular spending in the family budget, a change in the status of the family (there were a couple of adults, each of whom could take care of himself, and now there are three of them (or a little more if the twins are born), and one of them is a small one that needs the attention and resources of the family), a change in relations with relatives, solving issues with the professional implementation of the mother...
10. What will you gain as a result of fulfilling your desire and what will you do with the results of your actions?
Perhaps, having achieved a relationship with Lena K., it turns out that you wanted to raise your self-esteem, and you don't even need Lena K. at all.
And now you have a question on your agenda: how to break up with a woman in love with you, thanks to your own efforts, a woman?
Having received a certain position, a complex project, you may be surprised to find that the advantages of your position do not even please you at all, the disadvantages and difficulties take up much more time and effort than you can afford, and you can't just get out of the situation in an environmentally friendly way.
Getting out of the consequences of fulfilling your desire, which turned out to be superfluous, undesirable, and unbearable for you, also requires significant costs, not only external, but also internal.
11. Now collapse the three-dimensional picture of your dream goal into a short, succinct phrase that describes both your goal and your actions (the process of achieving it) and check your attitude to the team you created - the program for achieving the goal.
3 hours every day I communicate with different girls, women and find my favorite one
12. Multiple notes:
goal achievement (=fulfillment of a wish=satisfaction of actual needs) -) pleasure, (satisfaction, self-respect, pride, joy, happiness) + experience of successful self-realization, successful, happy unique (your own) life
This is the general scheme for achieving any of your dreams.
** Wrong approach: want "everything at once and more".
Focus on a few goals, two or three at most.
Reach them, then move on to the next ones.
*** A good test of the "truth of desire", in addition to the intuitive answer to the question: is this really what I want?
You like the process of achieving the goal, the intermediate results, and the resulting result.
And also-the consequences of the result.
**** In the process of formulating an achievable goal, clean out the mental garbage of "ill-wishes", or use the rule "who thinks clearly, lives successfully and happily".
If at some point there were doubts "and I need it ..."?
Please note, what is the reason for your doubts?
What is the difficulty that has taken away your energy?
After you discover it, this blatant difficulty or difficulty, find a way to deal with it or work around it.
Turn it into a separate problem and solve it.
Then continue to make your goal a reality.
Or, you find out that you didn't want what you wanted at all!
And something that was only part of what you wanted is your dream.
Then, clarify, clarify - what do you want, and achieve your goals.
Make your dreams come true!
1. Write what you want to achieve the way it is written.
The main thing is to do it sincerely, and express all the words that come to your mind (heart, soul).
2. Take a short break, 10-15 minutes, during which you must be distracted, change the type of activity.
3. Reread what you've written down – are you sure you want to do this?
So much so that you are willing to work hard to achieve your desire?
How many percent out of 100 do you really want to realize your wish?
4. Now we go directly to the formulation of the goal of your future activity.
Express your desire in positive words (WITHOUT any other way of negation).
Live WITHOUT cheating, DO NOT change-erroneous wording,
Being true is one of the correct formulations.
5. Write it down in the present tense
I lead a healthy lifestyle.
I am successfully interviewing for the XXX position.
I'm on vacation in Altai.
I'm traveling in Sweden.
During each step of reformulating your desire into an achievable goal, check your feelings:
Do you still want your wish to come true?
Do you want to start implementing it?
6.Specify your goal.
Imagine how its implementation will look in detail, what events you want to see (what you want to participate in, what you want to feel and hear) in the process of achieving the goal.
I hear the sound of an alarm clock and wake up easily.
I turn off the alarm, stretch, and get up.
I go to the window, look out and enjoy the early morning, the space and the silence.
I say to myself, "If you get up early, God gives you good luck" and go to the shower...
... I arrive at work earlier than my employees.
I go into the office, take off my coat and put it away, sit down at my desk, and check the plan I've made since the evening before.
I take the most difficult task and focus on my work.
When my colleagues come, I am happy to switch to communication with them, rewarding myself for excellent work with a short break...
I'll repeat it again:
specifics, specifics, and more specifics.
Imagine what the space around you looks like, what it smells like, what sounds are heard, what you feel, and, perhaps, what the process of fulfilling your dreams tastes like.
It may very well be that at this stage you will come across the fact that you, of course, have a great idea.
I want to say-you said it sincerely, but how it looks and feels, is lived in reality, you have either vague impressions, or practically none, or learned from feature films, programs and books.
It's time to take a short break and explore the specific details of your desire, dream.
The simpler the goal, the less time and effort you will spend implementing it.
I don't want to wash the dishes, and I want them to be clean!!!! - sounding at the first step, by the sixth it has already transformed into-I buy and install a dishwasher...
And it led to questions: what size, brand, cost, where to put it, how to organize the connection, etc.
If you don't have enough complete information, you are less likely to make the best decision for you.
Of course, if you set yourself a serious life goal, which largely determines in which direction the years and years of your life will pass, then you will have to think and research the issue more seriously.
Surprisingly, many people are more responsible when choosing household appliances or a car than when choosing a job, housing, or life partner.
Their main argument sounds like- " you can't take everything into account!".
Right.
But why the most urgent conclusion is made from this observation: "then I will generally act thoughtlessly, stupidly, maybe I will be lucky" - a mystery of all times and peoples.
So, you specify your goal, present in detail the plot of its achievement and implementation. See, feel, hear, smell, and enjoy the taste...
If you realize that you don't have realistic ideas about what you wanted, or you don't have enough of them, you focus on finding and getting information, and clarifying the details of your goal.
7. Apply the rule " Anti-IT ITSELF!".
Your goal should be formulated as achievable, thanks to your actions, your efforts.
I'm asking her out
I pass the selection process and complete This Project
I do, act, negotiate with other people and get their help, participation in exchange for something interesting that they need.
Erroneous options:
- Let him call me!
- I want to win a lot of money in the lottery!
8. Define the scope and boundaries of your goal.
Where, when, and with whom – you want to realize your goal.
Where, when, and with whom – you DON'T want to realize your goal.
I am buying a spacious bright two-bedroom apartment in the city center.
Error – if you don't specify the exact city. : )
9. What will you lose from what you have now when you reach your goal? Is your wish really worth it?
For example, the birth of even the most long-awaited and desired child will mean: significantly less free time for his mom and dad for many years, additional regular spending in the family budget, a change in the status of the family (there were a couple of adults, each of whom could take care of himself, and now there are three of them (or a little more if the twins are born), and one of them is a small one that needs the attention and resources of the family), a change in relations with relatives, solving issues with the professional implementation of the mother...
10. What will you gain as a result of fulfilling your desire and what will you do with the results of your actions?
Perhaps, having achieved a relationship with Lena K., it turns out that you wanted to raise your self-esteem, and you don't even need Lena K. at all.
And now you have a question on your agenda: how to break up with a woman in love with you, thanks to your own efforts, a woman?
Having received a certain position, a complex project, you may be surprised to find that the advantages of your position do not even please you at all, the disadvantages and difficulties take up much more time and effort than you can afford, and you can't just get out of the situation in an environmentally friendly way.
Getting out of the consequences of fulfilling your desire, which turned out to be superfluous, undesirable, and unbearable for you, also requires significant costs, not only external, but also internal.
11. Now collapse the three-dimensional picture of your dream goal into a short, succinct phrase that describes both your goal and your actions (the process of achieving it) and check your attitude to the team you created - the program for achieving the goal.
3 hours every day I communicate with different girls, women and find my favorite one
12. Multiple notes:
- current needs
- a wish
- intention
- informed planning
- successful action
goal achievement (=fulfillment of a wish=satisfaction of actual needs) -) pleasure, (satisfaction, self-respect, pride, joy, happiness) + experience of successful self-realization, successful, happy unique (your own) life
This is the general scheme for achieving any of your dreams.
** Wrong approach: want "everything at once and more".
Focus on a few goals, two or three at most.
Reach them, then move on to the next ones.
*** A good test of the "truth of desire", in addition to the intuitive answer to the question: is this really what I want?
You like the process of achieving the goal, the intermediate results, and the resulting result.
And also-the consequences of the result.
**** In the process of formulating an achievable goal, clean out the mental garbage of "ill-wishes", or use the rule "who thinks clearly, lives successfully and happily".
If at some point there were doubts "and I need it ..."?
Please note, what is the reason for your doubts?
What is the difficulty that has taken away your energy?
After you discover it, this blatant difficulty or difficulty, find a way to deal with it or work around it.
Turn it into a separate problem and solve it.
Then continue to make your goal a reality.
Or, you find out that you didn't want what you wanted at all!
And something that was only part of what you wanted is your dream.
Then, clarify, clarify - what do you want, and achieve your goals.
Make your dreams come true!
